Monday, May 27, 2013

The blessing of community

May 30, 2009

The blessing and grace of community

I just opened a package from Janna, one of Daniel’s best student friends at Whitworth, and tearfully read through the few dozen notes from his Whitworth friends that they wrote to him and us on April 28, the first anniversary of his death.  It is truly amazing to witness the impact this son of ours had on so many people during his eight months on campus and in the 12 months since he died. 

As a father, I am stunned, proud, blessed, and broken hearted all at the same time.

At times the grief is still unspeakable in its depth and intensity, yet the grace that we are also experiencing continues to be amazing.  God’s hand was at work in Daniel’s heart and life and it continues to be at work in the hearts and lives of those who loved him his whole life and those who only got to love him for a short time.

This Whitworth community of students, faculty, and staff are now a part of our family in a profound way.  Even while our hearts continue to ache with pain and sorrow, somehow we can experience the blessing and grace of that community.  I am still surprised by this paradox but thank God that it can and does co-exist.

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