Sunday, July 7, 2013

Speak O Lord: we too are not alone

March 17, 2012

I am up early after last night’s Watoto concert.  Three lovely little girls and their “Auntie” are asleep in our home and the energy of them and the choir has me buzzing.

God is speaking to my heart and I want to listen.

I shared a bit with the congregation about our trip to Uganda and to Watoto in 2010, commenting that holding babies for two weeks was literally an experience of heaven on earth and that Carol and I hoped to return someday and do it some more.

Holding innocent abandoned babies is somehow a taste of heaven – this thought had never really formed in my head until I heard those words coming out of my mouth.  God is present in these precious little ones and you can feel Him when you touch them.  The Sacred and the Holy comes to us in the form of a baby – sounds familiar to those of us who believe in Jesus.

The message of the Watoto choir is simply how God can heal our brokenness through his love and grace.  In the case of these kids, that includes brokenness through harsh poverty, the death of parents and family in many cases, and other calamities related to civil strife and living conditions that are hard to imagine from the comfort of our lives in America.  These kids have already experienced loss in significant ways and they are now experiencing healing through God’s love manifest in Watoto and the people who care for them, and are raising them in family-like groups, teaching them in schools, and investing in each of their lives. 

They are literally healed through the hands and hearts of the Body of Christ at Watoto – the church and community that cares enough to rescue them from their broken circumstances and bring them new life and redemption.
 
We too are not alone
 
Our loss of Daniel continues to weigh on my soul, but I also sense the healing touch of God through the experiences we have had over these last four years. 
 
Like the Watoto children, we too are experiencing God’s love and compassion through the Body of Christ – the church and our family and friends who are loving us and walking with us through these circumstances.  Just yesterday a colleague at my office asked me about Daniel’s upcoming death anniversary – it strikes me now how significant it is for me to hear those words and to know that others are aware of the weight and complexity of these feelings that are still lingering in my heart and likely will always be there.  Just being asked this question opened me up to the care that this person was sharing and the sense that others were present on the journey that so often feels so incredibly lonely and isolating in my heart.
 
At its essence, grief is a very lonely journey since it is such a personal and interior experience.  Each person’s experience of loss is unique in many respects and the emotions, questions, dis-ease that accompany loss all seem to be very personal and intimate.
 
In spite of this reality, it is also true that I am not alone in my pain and that matters more than anything.  God cares for me and that care is delivered to me through the kind and simple words of others. 
Thanks be to God for the friends and family who are present to share in my journey.

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